Every day is a new challenge for our leaders. Challenge and change and virus too! They have never had to deal with something like this. We all have to chill and pray that they do the right things to keep everyone calm and as safe as possible. We are our own worst enemy when it comes to stuff like this. Even when our population continues to rise, with the wars, illness, and violence, we have to think about the good of the whole and not the individual.
I guess there is something that has to (and yes, I am writing this) offset the population in order for the rest to survive longer on this planet. We have been given one planet and are we making the best of it? Are we doing our part now to prevent anything worse to happen? War is not just about bombs and guns. It is about each of us waging against each other. Taking this seriously has got to be a standard and norm for all of us.
So many have quoted Bible verses in order to put this into perspective. We have all seen or heard them. Can history repeat itself? Without a doubt, I believe it can. Is our faith strong enough to bring us through this? Most of us would say yes. I am a believer that for whatever reasons, beyond our control, God has a plan. We don’t get to know that plan. Our job is to do what we are supposed to do, right here and now.
I cannot imagine how it would feel to not be able to do what I want when I want, where I want. I cannot imagine having to fight for a scrap of food or clean water. We take so many things for granted it is really quite pitiful. I know that a lot of us have thought about the here and now and how things were and we really truly want to change. We want this way of life – just not the fight to get our simple needs met – but the exchange of conversations and the time with family and friends. We all need these moments to truly connect to each other and to ourselves.
Could we all stand truer conversations with those we love and care about? Are we learning to show more compassion for strangers? We can all do our part to make our lives richer because we had to slow down, change our courses of living. Doing these things in order to have a life well lived – not the rocking chair that never moves but back and forth – is what we are sent here to do.
Romans 12:10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;
These are times when our friends and neighbors should feel this, know this, and feel accepted by this. It is time to reflect on the changes that have been made and are coming.
Change can be good. Life can be good. We can be better at both. We are good at both. Think about all the things that have changed for the better to make our lives enriched with those we love. Challenge and Change and Virus too!
“Oh my God! Can you believe she wore that?” I exclaimed, walking down the crowded street. “That would be the last thing I would want to wear.”
“Yeah, well, with a body like that, I would wear it too.” My best friend was always saying how she wanted to have a body that would be killer in anything other than what she was wearing.
We walked the next couple of blocks to the train and noticed the rain started falling as we got to the platform.
What a night! It was a struggle getting into the disco, but we managed to get in, just as the music started to play. The crowd was already on the dance floor and the music was taking on a new vibe. Sue and I had never heard some of it before and we were thinking that maybe we should have waited and gone somewhere else.
Elvis had just passed away in August and the world thought it would end without his music. We were young, seeking something different, watching, and waiting to see who the next “big” thing would be. I couldn’t understand why someone so young, full of life, ambition, and charisma, was gone.
Anyway, we got on the train and sat back exhausted from dancing all night. It didn’t matter that we didn’t have dates, we enjoyed dancing and that was what tonight was all about. Saturday nights, freedom from parents, restrictions, our menial, part-time jobs, and we had time.
“I don’t want to stand here forever. What if we say, by 9 pm, if we don’t make it in, we go downtown to that new place?”
“Let’s wait. We are so close to walking through that door.” Sue was always wanting to wait, wait, wait.
“Ok, Fine.” I lit a cigarette and puffed away.
“We are in!! I can’t believe we are here.” Pushing her way through the crowd we find an open spot against a wall and watch. The dancers on the floor weren’t coupled up, but dancing in lines and large groups.
“What are they doing?” I asked as I watched them swinging their hips, taking large, sweeping steps, and pointing to the ceiling.
“Oh, that? It’s all the new craze, man. That new movie, what was it, oh, yeah, Saturday Night Fever, had some new stuff in it and everybody is doing it!” A tall, red-haired, freckled guy next to me explained what I was watching.
I smiled and said thanks. Sue and I didn’t waste time. We slid right in and joined the fun! And boy, was it fun! December 31, 1977, was a night to remember. The end of something old, a start to something new, and the time of our lives. Did I mention that was the last time we stayed up all night?
December 31, 2019
Elvis has been gone 42 years, the Bee Gees still get played, Star Wars has enough movies to be played by several generations that it will never be forgotten, and the beloved John Travolta will forever be dancing in that white suit pointing to the sky in Saturday Night Fever.
Sue and I keep in touch via Facebook and a few chance meetings. We don’t stay up late anymore – those days are gone. Things have changed so much – school, marriage, deaths, births, jobs, technology. Now the sand is slowly filling up the bottom of the hourglass. Time, we had so much of it back then.